Friday, May 4, 2007

Unbreak my heart

Can one ever truly mend a broken heart? It is always said that time heals all wounds. I don't believe that time can truly heal any wound. Time is a factor that never changes, how can something with such unphysical properties change the mental or physical damages. Time certainly affects a wound; but change it?

If you break your arm over time it heals but the mending is done physically by your own bones. In such a manner that we actually heal ourselves. Years later a doctor can look at that same arm and know that it was once broken. Things heal and are usable again but they are never the same as it once was. The same thing happens when your heart is broken. It is never the same. After a heartbreak, or tragic experience your life is altered in such a way that it affects things even 20 years from now.

So how does one mend a broken heart? Time certainly doesn't do it; our hearts mend themselves. We learn to deal with our pain and hopefully learn how to prevent the same occurrence. It always leaves a scar something that doesn't go away it is up to us to decide whet er we let our scars rule the rest of our paths. We are going to be hurt it is inevitable, we either learn from them or run from them.

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