haters

Sometimes it just doesn't pay to be a "friend". Unfortunately some people say they are friends but are really two faced. It is unfair to be in a situation where one person cares and the other is in it for what they can get out of the f aux relationship. I am tired of being walked on because of what I can bring to a friendship. A real friend sticks around when you are going through a rough time. A real friend lets you talk about it when you have had a bad day. A real friend doesn't make your bad day into a huge story about how much worse their day was. A real friend doesn't make your personal shared information seem unimportant. A real friend realizes that not everything is a competition because it never ends well.

Cheaters never prosper but liars get away with murder

I am usually a pretty laid back person. I don't let a lot get to me (at least I try not to) and I generally like everybody, and try not to give them a hard time. But the one thing that I absolutely cannot stand in a personality is a liar. Not just a liar but the kind of liar that will lie to cover their ass, make them look superior, and put someone down ALL in the same sentence.

I get angry when I see this happen to someone else as well as myself. However, i am also not one to say no to someone. I know that I have issues with being assertive and doing what is best for me but if I don't get out of this situation with this person (no names here) I am going to go insane with all the lies and just plain BULL SHIT that spews from the mouth. Now for those that know me it takes a lot to really anger me but dammit i just don't know how much more I can stand by and watch before i blow. I keep telling myslef that it will be alright and that the most professional thing to do about this deception is to let it be handled by a higher up but if it continues to go unnoticed i am going to have to be the bad guy. i just don't want it to get to the point of being a "tattle tale" . Or petty behaviors but I have a feeling anyway this goes that is how it will turn out.